Its 1 pm in the afternoon and I am so sleepy. I have this terrible cold and I have to drink medicine. Since I ran out of no-drowse Decolgen, I drank the other one. And so now here I am, feeling so dizzy facing my laptop. Anyway, this is supposed to be my second blog for the day but then I got disconnected and the one I have typed this morning was deleted…

Klave, its not that I’m protecting your gender or something but I know deep inside you are not gay. I mean, your actions are totally different from those who are gay. Anyway, Canence you really have a point about guys being so attached to their feminine side. I know lots of them but then it doesn’t bother me anymore because I like it when guys be like that rather than acting all macho around us girls. I like it especially when we could openly say what ever we want, even if its girl-talk because our guy friends don’t mind. You know nence, we are lucky because most of our guy friends are like that...

by the way, here's an email sent to me by Kittin. I really like it... To all the guys who keeps asking the same question all over again, here's our answer...

In a brief conversation, a man asked a woman. he was pursuing he question "What kind of man are you looking for?"

She sat quietly for a moment before looking him in the eye and asking "Do you really want to know?" Reluctantly, he said "Yes."


She began to expound..." As a woman in this day and age, I am in position to ask a man what he can do for me that I can't do for myself. I pay my own bills. I take care of my household with out the help of any man...or woman for that matter. I am in the position to ask "What can you bring to the table?"


The man looked at her. Clearly he thought that she was referring to money. She quickly corrected his thought and stated "I am not referring to money. I need something more. I need a man who is striving for perfection in every aspect of life."

He sat back in his chair, folded his arms, and asked her to explain.



She said, "I am looking for someone who is striving for perfection mentally because I need conversation and mental stimulation. I don't need a simple minded man. I am looking for someone who is striving for perfection spiritually because I don't need to be unequally yoked...believers mixed with unbelievers is a recipe for disaster.



I need a man who is striving for perfection financially because I don't need a financial burden. I am looking for someone who is sensitive enough to understand what I go through as a woman but strong enough to keep me grounded.



I am looking for someone who I can respect. In order to be submissive, I must respect him. I cannot be submissive to a man who isn't taking care of his business. I have no problem being submissive...he just has to be worthy. God made woman to be a help mate for man. I can't help a man if he can't help himself."


When she finished her spill, she looked at him. He sat there with a puzzled look on his face. He said "You are asking a lot."

She replied "I'm worth a lot."