Here's a poem for those on the verge of a very rocky relationship...ponder on...

“To let go does not mean to stop caring; it means I can’t do it for someone else.”
“To let go is not to cut myself off; it’s the realization I can’t control another.”
“To let go is to admit powerlessness, which means the outcome is not in my hands.”
“To let go is to enable, but also to allow learning from natural consequences.”
“To let go is not to try to change or blame another; it’s to make the most of myself.
“To let go is not to judge, but to allow anther to be a human being.”
“To let go is not to be in the middle arranging all the outcomes, but allow others to affect their destinies.”
“To let go is not to be protective; it’s to permit another to face reality.”
“To let go is not to nag, scold, or argue but instead to search out my own shortcomings and correct them.”
“To let go is not to criticize and regulate, but to try to become what I dream I can be.”
“To let go is not to regret the past, but to grow and live for the future.”
“To let go is not to deny, but to accept.”
“To let go is not to fear less, and love more.”

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